We all need a friend
What is one thing successful people have in common? Mentors, coaches, accountability partners, spouses or just plain FRIENDS. Having a friend is something important that everyone needs.
Humans are an interesting species. We are a funny lot. We are a social species. We need people. We thrive when we know that we are loved and supported by others. We need friends. Successful people even take it one step further. They get themselves coaches, mentors, and accountability partners. For example look at a Olympic level athlete, or any professional athlete. A professional athlete is not doing it alone. They are surrounded by coaches, trainers, teammates, and other like minded athletes. They surround themselves with people that share the same goal as them and will lift them up to help them achieve the desired goal. When an Olympic gymnast wins the gold medal, it is the individual that one. But the athlete knows that they would have never got to that podium without the support from trainers, coaches, family, friends and fellow athletes.
It is the same with any successful person in any career or walk of life. When an actor receives an Oscar, pay attention to the people they thank. The unsung heroes that got them there. When a writer publishes a book, there is always a recognition to whom credit and thanks are given. "To my publisher, my spouse, my family, my editor, I couldn't have done this without you." When a businessman creates a new business they are not doing it alone. They are counting on support and encouragement from mentors, spouses, families, to get them where they are trying to go.
Support and help from others isn't only for successful people. It is for everyone, in every walk of life. Once again, we are all human. The human species is a social animal we are designed to be at our strongest when we are supported by others. I want you to take a look at your life right now. What is your grandest goal? What are you trying so hard to achieve? Is it a raise at work? Is it a a healthier lifestyle? Is it to have more patience with your children? Whatever your goal is, are you being supported to achieve it? Have you asked for support?
Support can come in many ways and forms. It can come in the form of a friend, a spouse or a loved one. It can be a parent, a sibling, a cousin. For a medical issue it could be a doctor, a therapist, or a holistic healer. Who is your support? Do you have a support?
My daughter recently had a dislocated kneecap. To heal the injury she needs support. She saw a doctor, and now she is working with the physical therapist. Sure the injury can heal without support from others. But it will not heal strong unless she gets help from someone. We are so grateful for the Physical Therapist that has had the training and experience to give her the very precise support she needs for her knee. The therapist has the knowledge of all the specific exercises that can strengthen her knee and bring it back to full health.
When I think about the intricacies of the human experience I am filled with awe and gratitude for all the unique talents of so many individuals. It is when we bring our talents together that we are able to support and help one another. We need each other. We need other people. If you aren't leaning on someone for support, then reach out and find a friend. Not only do we need to be supported, we also need to support others. Look around your circle of influence, family, friends, community. Who can you help today? Who can you lend your support to so they can accomplish their goals and dreams?
The human experience is powerful. It is full of ups and downs. There are healthy people out there who are able to offer you support and love on your grandest journey. Make sure you have eyes to see them and when you notice those that are your support be sure to thank them for helping you on your personal path to greatness.